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Single To Soulmate Podcast with Johnny and Lara Fernandez

[For Women Only] The World's Thought Leaders on Soulmate Love Attraction invite you to the Single To Soulmate podcast where you, the conscious single woman, will learn to attract soulmate love, own your power, and begin to step into the next great chapter of your life. If you're a single woman and wondering why you still haven't found your Mr. Right, this podcast is for you. If you're looking to learn how to attract the love of your life - the man of your dreams, and in the meantime love yourself more, and love & enjoy your life more then this podcast is for you. Learn from Johnny and Dr. Lara Fernandez, a happily married soulmate couple who - for over a decade - have personally worked with thousands of women through their deeply transformational and life-changing courses and programs. Single To Soulmate is where you'll find the resources to live the life of your dreams with your soulmate by your side.
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Jan 31, 2019

When you talk about love, do you ever pause and think what it's all about? Who’s being impacted when you love and who would benefit from you becoming happier and a better version of yourself?

In this episode, Johnny talks about getting in touch with what really matters in your life - being present and having a mission that drives you every day.

In this episode we talk about:

- The importance of showing up live and being present

- How there is no substitute for live personal interaction

- Love Breakthrough Online Master Course

If you really want to show up live, I encourage you to be present in your life. Learn to block distractions in this busy and fast-paced world and do something that you’ve never done before. In terms of growth and learning, immerse yourself in a community that not only supports you but also encourages you to grow in life and love!

Join us for the Love Breakthrough Weekend and connect with others here in the Love Breakthrough Community and share your frustrations, fears and what excites you in life.

Men Of Quality Do Exist

You’re single and have been searching for Mr. Right. You’re done experimenting and you’re ready for commitment. But you’re not sure where to start and what proper steps to take.

When you have guide, you’ll be able to navigate the road to Mr. Right better.

Our Men Of Quality Do Exist is an eye-opening, controversial, and totally free documentary video series. We interview real men of quality that we personally know and you’ll get to hear and learn directly from them, what attracts them, what turns them off, and how they think!

Johnny and Lara will also teach you the step-by-step on how you can change your fortunes in love and attract that quality man. It’s only free for a short time.

Just go to singletosoulmate.com/men to sign up for this limited released video teaching series and attract your man of quality.

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Jan 30, 2019

Some women wonder - especially those who are still on the early stages of their relationship - if they’re going too fast.

In this episode, Johnny answers the question - Does having sex sooner or even fast hurt you or help you when you're looking for your soulmate? How many people do you know had sex fast and they're not with that person now? How many people do you know had sex fast and they're still with that person? As a love warrior, what path should you be taking?

In this episode we talk about:

- Changing your dating approach

- Having a decision-making framework

- Being soft on the outside and strong on the inside

Being able to have sex whenever you want is a great thing. When you’ve found your soulmate and you’re with him, both your physical and emotional intimacy is not only at its highest level but it also opens a lot of doors.

The freedom of having fast sex and having sex whenever is great but when you’re really serious about finding Mr. Right, you better not be playing that kind of game.

Men Of Quality Do Exist

You’re single and have been searching for Mr. Right. You’re done experimenting and you’re ready for commitment. But you’re not sure where to start and what proper steps to take.

When you have guide, you’ll be able to navigate the road to Mr. Right better.

Our Men Of Quality Do Exist is an eye-opening, controversial, and totally free documentary video series. We interview real men of quality that we personally know and you’ll get to hear and learn directly from them, what attracts them, what turns them off, and how they think!

Johnny and Lara will also teach you the step-by-step on how you can change your fortunes in love and attract that quality man. It’s only free for a short time.

Just go to singletosoulmate.com/men to sign up for this limited released video teaching series and attract your man of quality. 

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Jan 29, 2019

If you’ve seen the film Bridesmaids, you can probably see how a woman’s life can be a mess. There’s a lot of truth in the movie and a lot of nonsense too. You may be in a messy situation, but it’s up to you to take hold of the steering wheel of your life and turn things around.

In this episode, Lara shares important life lessons and advice for women facing challenges. She also purges the idea of women having a high-level of perfectionism when it comes to careers, love and relationships.

In this episode we talk about:

- The movie Bridesmaid and how it’s a great example on how you can be a mess

- The important distinction in finding your soulmate

- Women struggling in their careers and having financial difficulties

- Blame and responsibility being two different things

- Taking responsibility for your life and taking responsibility to become the best version of yourself

- The idea of having it all and perfectionism

- Being a committed student of love

It’s not required for you to have everything in place before finding your soulmate love. You don’t need to have a totally perfect career, perfect body and a perfect relationship. You just have to be an open and receptive student of love, constantly growing and learning. You don’t have to be perfect and everything doesn’t have to be perfect.

Men Of Quality Do Exist

You’re single and have been searching for Mr. Right. You’re done experimenting and you’re ready for commitment. But you’re not sure where to start and what proper steps to take.

When you have guide, you’ll be able to navigate the road to Mr. Right better.

Our Men Of Quality Do Exist is an eye-opening, controversial, and totally free documentary video series. We interview real men of quality that we personally know and you’ll get to hear and learn directly from them, what attracts them, what turns them off, and how they think!

Johnny and Lara will also teach you the step-by-step on how you can change your fortunes in love and attract that quality man. It’s only free for a short time.

Just go to singletosoulmate.com/men to sign up for this limited released video teaching series and attract your man of quality.

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Jan 26, 2019

In this episode, Johnny and Lara will be sharing how their client found love and what steps they took in order to get where they are now. They also talk about the importance of becoming your own soulmate first and becoming a student of love by deciding to live a Love Warrior’s life.

In this episode we talk about:

- Becoming your own soulmate first

- Investing time, energy, money and resources into becoming the best version of yourself

- What makes a healthy relationship and how to find it

- Reasons why people are having a hard time following through with their commitment

- Strong and healthy boundaries

- The key principle of becoming a Love Warrior

It’s not easy, but learn to love yourself enough to do the things that allows you to feel good about yourself. Having doubts, fears and worries are normal, but giving up is not. Don’t give up! Giving up is not an option if you’ve decided to become a Love Warrior lady!

Men Of Quality Do Exist

You’re single and have been searching for Mr. Right. You’re done experimenting and you’re ready for commitment. But you’re not sure where to start and what proper steps to take.

When you have guide, you’ll be able to navigate the road to Mr. Right better.

Our Men Of Quality Do Exist is an eye-opening, controversial, and totally free documentary video series. We interview real men of quality that we personally know and you’ll get to hear and learn directly from them, what attracts them, what turns them off, and how they think!

Johnny and Lara will also teach you the step-by-step on how you can change your fortunes in love and attract that quality man. It’s only free for a short time.

Just go to singletosoulmate.com/men to sign up for this limited released video teaching series and attract your man of quality.

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Jan 25, 2019

How do you wake up in the morning? Do you immediately reach for your smartphone and check through your email then scroll over social media? If you do, you better start doing that less from now on. It’s unhealthy and can actually affect you in the long run.

In this episode, Lara shares simple yet important advice that made a huge difference in her life and how it helped her in her search for Johnny. Whether you’re in a relationship, dating, single or married, you’ll definitely find value in this episode!

In this episode we talk about:

- The different forms of pressure and noise in life

- How to lower pressure and noise

- Doing something that can help lessen pressure and noise

- Helping your kids and teaching them to be mature and responsible

- Giving back to your parents and watching your obligations

- How anything you can't function without in your life is an addiction

Pressure and noise comes in any form. Saying yes to every single thing that is asked of you can actually cause operational drag on you. Wrong obligations drain us all of our energy and vitality, holding us back from reaching and living the life of our dreams. Look and think about the things that you can do on a daily basis to reduce the pressure and noise

Men Of Quality Do Exist

You’re single and have been searching for Mr. Right. You’re done experimenting and you’re ready for commitment. But you’re not sure where to start and what proper steps to take.

When you have guide, you’ll be able to navigate the road to Mr. Right better.

Our Men Of Quality Do Exist is an eye-opening, controversial, and totally free documentary video series. We interview real men of quality that we personally know and you’ll get to hear and learn directly from them, what attracts them, what turns them off, and how they think!

Johnny and Lara will also teach you the step-by-step on how you can change your fortunes in love and attract that quality man. It’s only free for a short time.

Just go to singletosoulmate.com/men to sign up for this limited released video teaching series and attract your man of quality.

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Jan 24, 2019

You are always attracting what it is you are putting out. In this episode, Johnny answers a question from one of our dear listeners on why you keep on attracting men who are only looking for sex. And learn how to achieve that quality attraction factor to attract a quality guy in your life.

In this episode we talk about:

- Not looking to men as objects or wallets

- Raising up your “Quality Attraction Factor”

Men should be treated with respect, treasured, adored and appreciated for who they really are as individuals. Back out a little bit and look at what you’re doing. Do the inner work and reflect. Help yourself be able to get in touch with who you are and who he is in his core.

Increase your quality attraction factor and you'll increase the quality of men from the core, not just the bank account that you want to attract.

Men Of Quality Do Exist

You’re single and have been searching for Mr. Right. You’re done experimenting and you’re ready for commitment. But you’re not sure where to start and what proper steps to take.

When you have guide, you’ll be able to navigate the road to Mr. Right better.

Our Men Of Quality Do Exist is an eye-opening, controversial, and totally free documentary video series. We interview real men of quality that we personally know and you’ll get to hear and learn directly from them, what attracts them, what turns them off, and how they think!

Johnny and Lara will also teach you the step-by-step on how you can change your fortunes in love and attract that quality man. It’s only free for a short time.

Just go to singletosoulmate.com/men to sign up for this limited released video teaching series and attract your man of quality.

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Jan 23, 2019

Sometimes we need to experience pain in order to move from where we currently are. Through it, we learn to muster courage and become brave.

What is your biggest pain in life? In this episode, Johnny shares how one of the biggest pain in his life became his biggest propellant to move onto the next chapter of his life.

Look back in your life and see where big pains might have really been propellants.

In this episode we talk about:

- Your biggest pain in life and using them as your propellant to move forward

- How disappointments and devastations don’t define you

Pain is one of the greatest motivators of change in life. Maybe you’re feeling extremely hurt, disappointed or devastated right now. If you’re feeling down, you have to be strong and use your pain as fuel to go for your dreams and desires!

Whatever that pain is, use that as a propellant to achieve something greater. Don’t wait for things to get better, move and make it better.

Men Of Quality Do Exist

You’re single and have been searching for Mr. Right. You’re done experimenting and you’re ready for commitment. But you’re not sure where to start and what proper steps to take.

When you have guide, you’ll be able to navigate the road to Mr. Right better.

Our Men Of Quality Do Exist is an eye-opening, controversial, and totally free documentary video series. We interview real men of quality that we personally know and you’ll get to hear and learn directly from them, what attracts them, what turns them off, and how they think!

Johnny and Lara will also teach you the step-by-step on how you can change your fortunes in love and attract that quality man. It’s only free for a short time.

Just go to singletosoulmate.com/men to sign up for this limited released video teaching series and attract your man of quality.

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Jan 22, 2019

Being a single woman for years, Lara kept attracting men who are emotionally unavailable to her. In today’s episode, Lara shares her thoughts and experiences on the topic of being single and available. Know if you’re really ready and available to attract men who are not scared and ready to commit in a relationship with you.

In this episode we talk about:
- Being single and available
- Knowing the truth and how it will set you free
- You attracting unavailable guys because you yourself are unavailable too
- Examining and observing yourself, if you’re emotionally unavailable or not

Through the inner work that Lara did, she learned that the men she dated before were simply a mirror for where she was at emotionally. And from that awareness, she started owning it. She took responsibility, and things started to change at a core level.

Now Lara has everything she needs, living a wonderful life with her soulmate Johnny by her side.

Men Of Quality Do Exist

You’re single and have been searching for Mr. Right. You’re done experimenting and you’re ready for commitment. But you’re not sure where to start and what proper steps to take.

When you have guide, you’ll be able to navigate the road to Mr. Right better.

Our Men Of Quality Do Exist is an eye-opening, controversial, and totally free documentary video series. We interview real men of quality that we personally know and you’ll get to hear and learn directly from them, what attracts them, what turns them off, and how they think!

Johnny and Lara will also teach you the step-by-step on how you can change your fortunes in love and attract that quality man. It’s only free for a short time.

Just go to singletosoulmate.com/men to sign up for this limited released video teaching series and attract your man of quality.


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Jan 19, 2019

Chemistry is very important to have in any relationship. It is that fun friend you always want to hang out with and go together with on road trips. But is chemistry always a good thing?

In this episode, Johnny talks about chemistry and why it shouldn’t be the main factor in your decision-making process. The reason why a lot of people fail in their relationships is due to the fact that they put way too much focus on chemistry.

In this episode we talk about:

- Why chemistry shouldn’t be your main decision-making framework

- How chemistry can lead you astray and how it has lead you astray in the past

- Examples of things that can help you make better decisions

Don’t make chemistry your main focus in all your relationships. The chemistry and the sparks have to be there but it can’t be the one controlling how you’ll decide things. It can’t be your main decision-making factor.

If chemistry has led you astray more than once in the past, you need to find new decision making structures and frameworks around how you can evaluate a potential partner. You have to see past the chemistry to see that man who values your dreams just as you do.

Do you believe that men of quality still exist?

To answer your question, Yes! Men of quality do exist. And to show you some proof, we have a documentary series called “Men of Quality Do Exists! It’s a four part mini series released every year in early February available for 2 weeks only. In this video teaching series, Johnny and Lara will show you that men of quality do exist, how to spot them and how to prepare for yours!

Get your FREE access now at www.singletosoulmate.com/moq and be on our VIP notification list so you'll find out first and don’t miss it.

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Jan 18, 2019

We either teach people to treat us with dignity and respect, or we don't. Nobody deserves mistreatment. But we are partly responsible for the mistreatment that we get at the hands of someone else.

In this episode, Johnny answers the question about why other people treat you the way they do? How can boundaries help? And is it best to just ignore someone who left you for another woman?

In this episode we talk about:

- How to take loving responsibility

- Having a higher level of commitment to loving and valuing yourself and love

- Self-respecting behaviors

- Making clear, non-negotiable boundaries to help you have that space to attract ‘Real Love”

- How to change

You treat yourself the same way you want to be treated by your soulmate. Commit to yourself first and foremost to attract that person who also has the same high level of commitment to loving you and to love itself.

Live your best life now and start seeing the changes in the way people communicate and treat you! All because you are loving yourself and treating yourself better than before.

Do you believe that men of quality still exist?

To answer your question, Yes! Men of quality do exist. And to show you some proof, we have a documentary series called “Men of Quality Do Exists! It’s a four part mini series released every year in early February available for 2 weeks only. In this video teaching series, Johnny and Lara will show you that men of quality do exist, how to spot them and how to prepare for yours!

Get your FREE access now at www.singletosoulmate.com/moq and be on our VIP notification list so you'll find out first and don’t miss it.

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Jan 17, 2019

Frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed. These are the three words that best describes the feeling that leaves you no room in your life for love. If you're frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed, you're not really ready for a relationship in your life. Even if the most amazing man in the world walked into your life right now, you wouldn't have any room for him. What can you do to change this?

In this episode, Johnny talks about how being frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed affects you in all aspects of your life. He also talks about how you can reduce these feelings in order for your soulmate to have room in your life.

In this episode we talk about:

- How frazzle, overwhelm and stress is affecting you

- What you can do to reduce the frazzle and stress in your life?

- How a lot of learning becomes more of unlearning

- Connecting more with other women for healing and happiness

- Reducing frazzle, overwhelm and stress in your life

We live in a society where standards are becoming higher and expectations harder to meet. And so we focus very hard on our work. You want to get ahead and get things done but there’s only so much you can do with your physical body.

Reduce frazzle, overwhelm and stress by getting enough sleep when you’re tired. Take a walk or maybe spend some quality time with your girlfriends! Allow your life to get better by reducing your frazzle, overwhelm and stress!

Do you believe that men of quality still exist?

To answer your question, Yes! Men of quality do exist. And to show you some proof, we have a documentary series called “Men of Quality Do Exists! It’s a four part mini series released every year in early February available for 2 weeks only. In this video teaching series, Johnny and Lara will show you that men of quality do exist, how to spot them and how to prepare for yours!

Get your FREE access now at www.singletosoulmate.com/moq and be on our VIP notification list so you'll find out first and don’t miss it.

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Jan 16, 2019

In this episode, Johnny talks about the crashes you may experience in life. And how a certain incident can turn into your breakthrough. He also shares his own story about the crashes he experienced in life, how he pushed through despite getting hurt, and how important it is to have someone by your side who believes in you and encourages you to go on.

In this episode we talk about:

- How riding motorcycles led Johnny to Lara

- Not allowing your crashes to define who you are

- The importance of having a friend or someone who has the expertise to help you navigate through difficult waters

Don’t allow your pain, your crashes and your mistakes to define who you are as a person. If things aren’t going the way you want them to be, that’s fine. Something will and always be possible for you.

When you learn your lessons properly, you won’t make the same mistakes again. Look at the brighter side! You never know, your crash may be one of the most amazing stories of your life.

Do you believe that men of quality still exist?

To answer your question, Yes! Men of quality do exist. And to show you some proof, we have a documentary series called “Men of Quality Do Exists! It’s a four part mini series released every year in early February available for 2 weeks only. In this video teaching series, Johnny and Lara will show you that men of quality do exist, how to spot them and how to prepare for yours!

Get your FREE access now at www.singletosoulmate.com/moq and be on our VIP notification list so you'll find out first and don’t miss it.

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Jan 15, 2019

You may have that feeling of hopelessness sometimes. You can’t avoid it. If you’re feeling hopeless, you may look for encouragement everywhere, in any form. But what’s actually going on and how can there be a turnaround when you’re feeling hopeless?

In this episode, Johnny talks about feeling hopeless and how to turnaround from that situation. When you’re feeling hopeless, there are 3 things being focused on: the pain, the past & future, and the turnaround.

In this episode we talk about:

- Feeling hopeless

- How your present determines your future and not your past

- Turning your hopeless situation around

- Allow yourself to feel the pain

- The real pain of losing your dreams and desires

- Looking for evidences that helps you achieve and make your dreams possible

- Angelica’s inspiring story of pain, hope and not giving up on the future that she wants

- Not giving up

Cliché as it may sound - Don’t lose hope! Don’t give up! All things are possible if you do the work and put in the action. It’s possible when you do this turnaround and allow yourself to get real about the pain of losing your real dreams and desires, and decide to pick that up again.

Recognize that your present determines your future, not your past. Whatever you do today will determine how your future will be.

Do you believe that men of quality still exist?

To answer your question, Yes! Men of quality do exist. And to show you some proof, we have a documentary series called “Men of Quality Do Exists! It’s a four part mini series released every year in early February available for 2 weeks only. In this video teaching series, Johnny and Lara will show you that men of quality do exist, how to spot them and how to prepare for yours!

Get your FREE access now at www.singletosoulmate.com/moq and be on our VIP notification list so you'll find out first and don’t miss it.

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Jan 12, 2019

The dating world could get really overwhelming and intimidating for someone who’s not prepared to actually make a decision or doesn’t know if someone is right for them or not.

In this episode, you’ll learn to become your own real soulmate as Johnny talks about where you should be devoting yourself first before entering the dating world. He also talks about what not to do so that dating won’t become an obstacle in finding your love.

In this episode we talk about:

- The importance of having a breakthrough in your life

- Becoming your own soulmate first as the right path to soulmate love

- Being kind to yourself

- How you’re not only leading yourself, but you’re also leading a team

- Looking at how aware are you on where you put your time, money and energy in your past relationships

Becoming your own soulmate comes first before dating. If you want to be in a committed, monogamous, long-term relationship with a healthy quality man, one of the things you can do is reflect on how you got into your past relationships.

And once you have reflected on it, shift and devote more of your resources to the life that you really want. Know and love yourself first, then you’ll be more prepared to face and meet the man of your dreams.

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

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Jan 11, 2019

Setting boundaries is such a big issue especially when it comes to your family, lover or people who are super close to you. Boundaries are needed in order to have a healthy relationship with anybody. When setting boundaries, make sure it is clear and reasonable.

In this episode, Johnny talks about certain issues regarding boundaries and shares some important lessons related to it. He also shared a story regarding a client and her personal boundary issues and what you can take away from her story.

In this episode we talk about:

- Lessons on boundary

- How everything affects your love life and your love life affects everything

- How to draw boundaries with the people (e.g. parents, siblings, lover) you’re very close with

- Not putting yourself in difficult situations

- Not calling a delusion a boundary

- How to stop expecting others to be someone they are not

Your boundaries should match reality. We have a lot of ideas about what boundary we should apply on other people like our co-workers, friends, neighbors, and people who aren’t really close to us. But when it comes to your family, lover or people who are really close to your heart, it could get a little bit hard. 

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

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Jan 10, 2019

What does it take for you to call a man perfect? Should he be handsome? Wealthy? Attentive? Kind? A family man? Does he even exist or have you just fallen into “The Perfect Man Trap”? Should you be that perfect girl too in order to be the right match for your ideal perfect guy?

In this episode, Johnny shares from a guy’s pov the 3 perfection myths that keeps you away from your soulmate, and how it’s slowly leading you into the perfect man trap.

In this episode we talk about:

- The “perfect man trap” - a story about people who didn’t click and a story about perfectionism

- Perfection myths you should stop believing if you want to attract your soulmate

- You don't have to be what he wants you to be, you have to be who YOU want
to be

- A genuine warm smile is the best thing you can wear

- If you love you, then he will love you

- Don’t pressure yourself with unrealistic expectations

"Perfectionism is not the same thing as striving to be our best. Perfectionism is not
about healthy achievement and growth; it's a shield. Perfectionism is a 20-ton shield that we lug around thinking it will protect us when, in fact, it's the thing that's really preventing us from being seen and taking flight." — Brene Brown

Nobody is perfect, but it doesn’t mean you have to stop striving to be the best you. He may not be perfect, but he is the perfect one for you! You just have to allow yourself to know that you’ll also be the perfect woman for him by being your true and raw self.

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

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Jan 9, 2019

They say you can’t have it all. But what does it really mean to have it all? This concept of having it all means different things to different people. It could mean having an exciting career, a loving husband, being rich and famous, and whatnot.

In this episode, Johnny talks about what it really means to have it all and how you can achieve it. When we talk about having it all, on a surface level, people equate it to collecting physical objects or acquiring stuff. But when you look at it deeply, having it all means being in a healthy relationship with a high-quality committed man who loves and adores you and is committed only to you.

In this episode we talk about:

- What “having it all” really means

- Love Warriors take their dreams seriously and so does the people around them

- Surrounding yourself with people who are living the life you want

- How we are given life in order to prosper it

- Being wise in our choices and going for our dreams

Remember, having it all means you can have love, health, financial ease, abundance, and a healthy relationship with a high-quality man who loves, adores, cherishes and respects you with all of his entire being.

Life isn’t perfect and that’s okay! You can still be happy doing the things you love with your soulmate by your side. If you think you are asking for too much, you aren’t. We are all created to prosper and are meant to achieve greater things. Get around people who have it all so that you can see that it is totally possible for you too!

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

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Jan 8, 2019

Social media is not really helping when it comes to moving on from a breakup. Sure, you did unfriend your ex or maybe even blocked him. But what about his friends? What if they post something where your ex is tagged or mentioned? What if this reminder of him hurts you too much? Should you unfriend them too?

In this episode, Lara answers one of the questions by our dear listeners. “Would unfriending my ex’s friends on social media (e.g. Facebook) be the right path into letting go of the past?”

Lara also shares 5 things you can do to totally let go of your past and move on to the next chapter of your life.

In this episode we talk about:

- Releasing your anxiety by unfriending your ex’s buddies on social media

- Taking a break and going on a man diet

- Learning to forgive yourself for the decisions you’ve made in terms of dating

- Raising your “Quality Attraction Factor” to magnetize the man of your dreams

- Extraordinary self-care by committing to yourself

- Knowing yourself first

Unfriending your ex’s friends on social media will definitely speed up the healing process. This does not mean you hate them, but you need to do it if you really want to move on. It’s not easy but you must learn to let go of the past and live in the present moment with your future in mind.

Remove all traces of your ex, and one of them is unfollowing him and his friends on social media. Lingering in your past relationships will keep you from achieving that happy future you’ve been dreaming of.

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

 

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Jan 5, 2019

The key is to attract your soulmate and dreams in life is to not give up - on yourself and your dreams. Your attitude and mindset will affect how you will magnetize your man and your ambitions in life.

In this episode, Lara enumerates self-improvement advice and tips to become the right person to attract the right man for you. If you know where to improve on, you become a better you!

In this episode we talk about:

- Extraordinary self-care

- Becoming a person who forgives quickly

- Lara’s method on how to forgive

- How all dreams take longer than you think

- Giving LOVE 100% all of the time

- Living with OOMPH!

- Learning to see the beauty in everything

- How to be healthy - eat Kale!

You are your own worst enemy when it comes to achieving your own dreams and purpose. The journey to becoming the best YOU will really be a tough one. But if you don't believe in yourself, and in your dreams, who would? Be the person you’ve always envisioned yourself to be. And it all starts with loving, believing and investing in yourself.

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

 

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Jan 4, 2019

Being bold, honest and frank is very important in any type of relationships. Your way of communicating matters. Are you saying what you mean? Are you meaning what you say?

In this episode, Johnny shares his thoughts about why you should “say what you mean and mean what you say”. No matter how angry you get at others or each other, don't threaten or say things you don't really mean. Don’t make promises or say things you won’t be able to fulfill in the end.

In this episode we talk about:

- Why we should say what we mean

- Meaning what you say

- Taking actions over your words

- Learning to say what we actually mean

Don’t be afraid to say what you really mean to say. Be clear and true to your words by showing it through your actions. Not fulfilling your promises breaks loyalty, trust and creates disrespect.

Saying what you mean and meaning what you say is easier said than done. It takes a love warrior energy and real commitment to say what you mean and to mean what you say. If you have the committed energy to - say what you mean and mean what you say, then be a Love Warrior and attract the same.

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

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Jan 3, 2019

There is no hocus-pocus, magical love potion, or any quick fix podcast and blog posts to instantly change your relationships with men permanently. To change the flow of your relationships, you must first understand yourself.

In this episode, Lara talks about the 3 things that could help you change your relationships with men forever! Get on track and live your best life with these steps that’ll help you further deepen and process your relationships with men and yourself.

In this episode we talk about:

- 3 Steps to change your relationships with men forever

- Observing yourself and learning more about you

- Living your best life

- Studying the male creature (high consciousness, healthy and quality men)

When you understand yourself, you love yourself and that will effortlessly attract and create a manifestation through your relationships with men and others. Be the change, to change your relationships. And once you change so will your relationships.

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

 

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Jan 2, 2019

After a breakup, the last person you want to see is the one responsible for the pain you’re experiencing right now or have experienced in the past. Letting go is never easy and being friends with your ex won’t help ease the pain.

In this episode, Johnny shares his thoughts about whether you should or should not remain friends with your former lover or ex. He also gave advice on what you should be doing if he’s the father of your kid/s and what you should be doing if he’s not.

In this episode we talk about:

  • Why you shouldn’t be friendly buddies with your ex (if he’s not the father of your child/children)
  • Reasons why you should learn to keep your distance and maintain your boundaries
  • Your ex is your past and not your future
  • How to maintain a business-like relationship with your ex if he is the father of your child/children

You must learn to move on. Your past is your past for a reason. Whatever circumstances you’re in, you must not stop moving forward.

Now going back to the question, should you still remain friends with your ex? If he’s the father of your kid, yes. Maintaining a business-like relationship is the best option for the two of you and your kid/s. If not, you might consider distancing yourself a little bit.

Being friends with your ex is downright unhealthy. Don’t dwell in the past. Focus on your future instead. Focus on finding the right man for you, and live the life of your dreams.

 

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

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Jan 1, 2019

Each new year is another chance to make things better for you, an invitation to take your life from the slow lane into the fast lane.

In this episode, Johnny discusses how you can make this year the year you turn everything around. And how setting your intentions right, followed by a plan, personal support, and community will help you get the love you are worthy of this year.

In this episode we talk about:

  • What it really means to set your intentions right for the new year
  • How willpower alone cannot make massive change in your life
  • Gathering information can’t be the answer to setting your intentions
  • Setting intentions right includes a plan, personal support, and community
  • Not setting your intentions right might mean you are punishing yourself for mistakes that you have made in the past
  • Decide that it is not someday, but this year, when things are going to be different
  • Direction matters more than anything

Being a Love Warrior means that even though you have stumbled, you allow yourself the experience of being human and to connect with your higher power. Even though you are not perfect, you are worthy of love. And you deserve to have your intentions made manifest this year!

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

 

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